Approximately 6% of divorced couples remarry each other, and 10–15% of separated couples reconcile before the divorce is finalized, according to research compiled from the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage and Journal of Marriage and the Family. 

Reconciliation estimates vary widely depending on the methodology — academic studies place the range between 12% (Tumin et al., 2015) and 44% of separated women who attempt reconciliation (Wineberg, 1996), though only one-third of those attempts succeed in the long term. 

A study by Hawkins published in the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage found that 75% of divorced couples report at least one spouse regretting the divorce within one year. 

Illinois couples considering reconciliation during active divorce proceedings can request dismissal or placement on the court’s reconciliation calendar before the final judgment is entered under 750 ILCS 5/401.

Key Takeaways

• Approximately 6% of divorced couples remarry each other, and 30% of those who do divorce a second time — a rate lower than the 60%+ second-marriage divorce rate overall, suggesting renewed marriages carry greater commitment (Psychology Today, 2022).
• Academic estimates of reconciliation range from 12% (Tumin et al., 2015) to 25% (Binstock & Thornton, 2003) to 44% who attempt it (Wineberg, 1996) — but Wineberg’s research shows that only 32% of women who attempted reconciliation remained together after one year.
• Illinois law allows couples to dismiss a pending divorce case or request the court’s reconciliation calendar before the final judgment is entered — but once the dissolution is final, remarrying requires a new marriage license with no waiting period.
• Younger marriage age correlates with higher reconciliation attempts: women who married before age 19 reconciled at 16.6%, while women who married at 25 or older reconciled at only 3.5% (Wineberg, Journal of Divorce & Remarriage).

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How Often Do Divorced Couples Actually Remarry Each Other?

Approximately 6% of divorced couples choose to remarry each other after finalizing their divorce, according to research cited by Dr. Mark Banschick in Psychology Today (2022). Remarriage to the same person, sometimes called “re-marriage” or “marital recycling” by researchers, remains a small but consistent phenomenon across multiple decades of data.

Among couples who remarry each other, approximately 30% go on to divorce a second time. The overall divorce rate for second marriages to a different person exceeds 60%, which means that couples who remarry the same spouse actually have roughly half the re-divorce risk of those who remarry someone new. 

Researchers attribute this lower re-divorce rate to the greater self-selection involved — couples who return to each other after divorce typically do so after significant personal reflection and therapy.

The broader reconciliation picture is more nuanced than the 6% remarriage figure alone suggests. During active divorce proceedings — before the final judgment is entered — reconciliation rates are substantially higher. 

Dr. Banschick noted that up to 60% of people going through a divorce process may be open to reconciliation at some point during the proceedings, even if most ultimately complete the divorce.

Measure	Rate	Source
Divorced couples who remarry each other	~6%	Psychology Today (Banschick, 2022)
Reconciliation during separation (range)	12–25%	Tumin et al. (2015); Binstock & Thornton (2003)
Separated women who attempt reconciliation	44%	Wineberg (1996), Population Research and Policy Review
Of those who attempted, stayed together 1+ year	32%	Wineberg (1994), Journal of Marriage and the Family
Re-divorce rate for same-spouse remarriage	~30%	Psychology Today (Banschick, 2022)
Divorce rate for second marriages (different spouse)	60%+	Multiple sources
People in the divorce process are open to reconciliation	Up to 60%	Psychology Today (Banschick, 2022)

What Does Academic Research Show About Reconciliation Rates?

Reconciliation, defined as the resumption of a marital relationship after a period of separation, has been studied by several researchers using different methodologies and populations. 

A 2025 literature review by Brown et al. published in the Journal of Marriage and Family summarized the academic range: 12% of marital separations end in reconciliation according to Tumin et al. (2015), 25% according to Binstock and Thornton (2003), and 44% of separated women attempted reconciliation according to Wineberg (1996).

Dr. Howard Wineberg of Portland State University conducted the most detailed analysis of reconciliation patterns using data from the 1987–88 National Survey of Families and Households. 

Wineberg and McCarthy (1993) reported in the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage that 10% of all currently married couples in the United States had experienced at least one separation and reconciliation during their marriage. 

Among the 506 women in Wineberg’s sample who attempted reconciliation, 50% eventually divorced, 44% remained with their spouses at the time of the survey, and only 32% had remained together continuously for more than 1 year.

Multiple reconciliation attempts were common. Wineberg found that 50–60% of couples who reconciled once went through a second separation, and 30% experienced three or more cycles of separation and reconciliation. 

Short-term separations (one week to one month) were more common among childless women, while women with children tended toward longer separations of one month or more before attempting reconciliation.

What Factors Increase or Decrease the Chance of Getting Back Together?

Age at first marriage is one of the strongest predictors of reconciliation. Wineberg’s research found a clear inverse relationship: women who married before age 19 reconciled at 16.6%; women who married at 19–20 reconciled at 9.6%; women who married at 21–24 reconciled at 6.7%; and women who married at 25 or older reconciled at only 3.5%. 

Younger couples who divorce often lack the relationship skills and life experience that older adults bring to conflict resolution — but that same lack of entrenchment makes them more willing to try again.

Race and religious background also correlate with reconciliation rates. Wineberg found that Black women attempted reconciliation at 45%, roughly twice the rate of white women. 

The Pew Research Center found that women with a college education have an 8-in-10 chance of remaining married after 20 years, compared to less than 40% for women with only a high school education — suggesting that higher education correlates with both lower divorce rates and lower reconciliation attempts.

The reason for the original divorce matters substantially. Couples who separated due to situational stressors — financial difficulties, external family pressure, career disruption, or temporary emotional distance — show higher reconciliation rates than those whose marriages ended due to domestic violence, substance abuse, or fundamental incompatibility. 

Infidelity occupies a middle ground: while affair-driven divorces are harder to reconcile, the AAMFT’s 2012 survey found that 74% of couples who pursued structured therapy after infidelity successfully recovered.

Factor	Effect on Reconciliation	Source
Married before age 19	16.6% reconciliation rate	Wineberg, J. of Divorce & Remarriage
Married age 25+	3.5% reconciliation rate	Wineberg, J. of Divorce & Remarriage
Black women	45% attempt reconciliation	Wineberg, Portland State University
White women	~22% attempt reconciliation	Wineberg, Portland State University
Shared children	Longer separation but higher attempt rate	Wineberg (1996)
Couples therapy post-infidelity	74% recovery rate	AAMFT (2012)
College-educated women	80% stay married 20+ years	Pew Research Center

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How Does Illinois Law Handle Reconciliation During Divorce Proceedings?

Illinois couples who reconcile during active divorce proceedings have two primary legal options before the final judgment is entered. The petitioner — the spouse who filed — can voluntarily dismiss the case at any time before the court enters the final dissolution order. 

Both spouses remain legally married throughout the entire proceedings until that final order, so dismissal simply ends the court process and preserves the existing marriage.

Alternatively, Illinois courts can place a case on the “reconciliation calendar,” effectively pausing the proceedings while the couple attempts to repair the relationship. 

The court retains jurisdiction, and either party may request reactivation of the case if reconciliation fails. This option preserves the legal groundwork already completed — temporary orders regarding child custody, support, and property will remain in effect if the case resumes.

Once a final dissolution judgment has been entered, the marriage is legally terminated. Couples who wish to reunite after a finalized divorce must obtain a new marriage license and remarry. Illinois imposes no waiting period between a finalized divorce and a new marriage. 

However, one critical legal consequence applies: if a spouse was receiving maintenance (alimony), that obligation terminates upon remarriage under 750 ILCS 5/510. 

Couples who reconcile and later re-divorce must go through a new 6-month separation period to re-establish the irrebuttable presumption of irreconcilable differences under 750 ILCS 5/401(a-5).

What Challenges Do Couples Face When Remarrying an Ex-Spouse?

Couples who remarry face a distinct set of challenges that differ from those in first marriages or in marriages to new partners. The 30% re-divorce rate among same-spouse remarriages — while lower than the 60%+ rate for second marriages to different people — indicates that roughly one in three renewed marriages ultimately fail again. Addressing the original causes of divorce before remarrying is the single strongest predictor of success.

Unresolved conflict patterns represent the most common obstacle. Relationship researchers note that without structured professional intervention, couples tend to re-enter the same communication dynamics that drove the original divorce. 

The AAMFT found that couples who pursued therapy before reconciling had substantially better outcomes than those who reunited based solely on emotion.

Legal and financial complexity adds a practical layer. Previous divorce settlements may have divided retirement accounts, real estate, and other assets — remarriage does not automatically reverse those divisions. 

New prenuptial agreements, updated estate plans, and revised beneficiary designations all require attention. 

Child custody arrangements established during the divorce may need to be modified by the court if parenting time or decision-making authority changes following reconciliation.

External skepticism from family, friends, and children of the marriage creates social pressure that first-time couples do not face. 

Children who experienced the divorce may struggle with confusion, hope, or fear about the reunion. Experts recommend age-appropriate communication and family therapy to help children process the transition.

Does Regretting a Divorce Lead to Reconciliation?

Regret after divorce is far more common than actual reconciliation. A study by Hawkins, published in the Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, found that in 75% of divorced couples, at least one spouse expressed regret about the divorce within 1 year of finalization. 

The gap between regret (75%) and actual remarriage (6%) reveals that emotional longing rarely translates into practical reunification.

Several factors explain the disconnect. The logistics of post-divorce life — separate households, divided finances, new routines, and sometimes new partners — create practical barriers to reconciliation even when emotional desire exists. 

The emotional weight of having gone through the legal process itself can make returning feel like a failure rather than a source of growth. Social stigma around “going back” to an ex-spouse discourages many who might otherwise attempt reconciliation.

Gender differences in regret patterns also emerge in the data. Wineberg’s research found that among male cheaters who divorced, 61% were currently married (often to someone else). In comparison, only 44% of female cheaters who divorced were currently married, according to IFS analysis of GSS data. 

Men remarry at higher rates than women after divorce, which means men’s regret is more likely to be channeled into a new relationship rather than a return to the original spouse. 

Roughly 80% of all divorced Americans ultimately remarry someone, according to Pew Research Center analysis of U.S. Census data.

Infidelity can reshape your family’s future, and reconciliation raises complex legal questions about property, custody, and support agreements already in place. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

What Percentage of Divorced Couples Remarry Each Other?

Approximately 6% of divorced couples choose to remarry each other after their divorce is finalized, according to research cited by Dr. Mark Banschick in Psychology Today. Among those who remarry the same spouse, roughly 30% go on to divorce a second time — a rate significantly lower than the 60%+ divorce rate for second marriages to different partners.

How Many Separated Couples Reconcile Before Divorce Is Final?

Academic estimates of reconciliation during separation range from 12% (Tumin et al., 2015) to 25% (Binstock & Thornton, 2003), while Wineberg’s 1996 research found that 44% of separated women attempted reconciliation. Dr. Mark Banschick noted in Psychology Today that up to 60% of people in the divorce process report being open to reconciliation at some point.

Does Age at Marriage Affect Reconciliation Chances?

Wineberg’s research, published in the Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, found a strong inverse relationship between age at first marriage and reconciliation rates. Women who married before age 19 reconciled at 16.6%; women who married at 19–20 at 9.6%; women at 21–24 at 6.7%; and women who married at 25 or older at only 3.5%.

How Many Divorced People Regret the Decision Within a Year?

A study by Hawkins published in the Journal of Divorce and Remarriage found that in 75% of divorced couples, at least one spouse expressed regret about the divorce within one year of finalization. The gap between regret at 75% and actual remarriage at 6% indicates that emotional longing rarely translates into practical reconciliation.

Can You Stop a Divorce in Illinois if You Reconcile?

Illinois law allows the petitioner to voluntarily dismiss a divorce case at any time before the court enters the final dissolution order. Courts can also place cases on a reconciliation calendar to pause proceedings while couples attempt to repair their relationship. Once the final judgment is entered, the marriage is legally terminated, and reconciliation requires a new marriage license.

Is There a Waiting Period to Remarry in Illinois After Divorce?

Illinois imposes no waiting period between a finalized divorce and a new marriage. Couples who wish to remarry each other or marry a different person can obtain a new marriage license immediately after the dissolution judgment is entered. However, maintenance obligations terminate upon the recipient’s remarriage under 750 ILCS 5/510.

What Happens to Custody Agreements if Divorced Parents Reconcile?

Existing parental responsibility allocations established during the divorce remain legally enforceable until formally modified by the court. Reconciled parents who resume cohabitation or remarry must petition the court to modify custody and parenting time orders if they want the legal framework to reflect their changed living arrangement under 750 ILCS 5/610.5.

Do Couples Who Remarry Each Other Have Better Outcomes Than New Second Marriages?

Couples who remarry their former spouse divorce a second time at approximately 30%, compared to the 60%+ divorce rate for second marriages to a different partner, according to Psychology Today. Researchers attribute the lower re-divorce rate to the greater self-selection involved and the personal growth that typically precedes a decision to return to a former spouse.

Does Race Affect Reconciliation Rates After Divorce?

Wineberg’s research at Portland State University found that Black women attempted reconciliation at 45%, roughly twice the rate of white women, who attempted it at 22%. The study attributed this difference partly to cultural factors and partly to the finding that Black couples are more likely to use separation as an alternative to formal divorce.

What Is the Success Rate of Reconciliation After Infidelity?

The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy found that 74% of couples who pursued structured therapy after infidelity successfully recovered their relationship in a 2012 survey. Without professional intervention, reconciliation rates after infidelity drop substantially, and couples who attempt reunion based solely on emotion face significantly higher re-separation risk.

How Long Does Reconciliation Typically Take?

Wineberg’s research found that short-term separations of one week to one month were most common among childless couples. In contrast, couples with children tended toward longer separations of one month or more before attempting reconciliation. Relationship therapy research suggests the full healing and rebuilding process typically spans two to five years for couples who ultimately succeed.

Should You Consult a Lawyer Before Reconciling With an Ex-Spouse?

Legal consultation before reconciliation protects both parties’ rights regarding property, maintenance, and custody arrangements established during the divorce. Remarriage terminates maintenance obligations under 750 ILCS 5/510, and previous property divisions are not automatically reversed. An Illinois family law attorney can advise on prenuptial agreements and custody modifications.

Divorce is a complicated process for anyone, and it can be incredibly challenging when a couple can’t agree on important issues such as child custody, property division, and spousal support. Litigation is one way to resolve these issues, but it can be costly and time-consuming. That’s where divorce mediation comes in.

Divorce mediation is a process that permits couples to work together with a neutral third party, known as a mediator, to agree on the issues that need to be resolved in their divorce. Mediation is often less expensive and less time-consuming than litigation, and it can be a more amicable way to end a marriage. In Illinois, divorce mediation is an essential practice that helps couples find conflict resolution with the help of attorneys.

Key Takeaways

• Divorce mediation is a process that allows couples to work together with a neutral third party, known as a mediator, to agree on the issues that need to be resolved in their divorce.
• During mediation, a trained mediator acts as a neutral third party, helping two parties resolve their differences and come to an agreement.
• In divorce mediation, the mediator’s role is facilitating communication between the parties and helping them agree.

What is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that allows couples to negotiate a divorce settlement with the help of a neutral third party, the mediator. Mediation is a voluntary process, meaning both parties must agree to participate. During mediation, the mediator helps the parties identify and discuss the issues that need to be resolved, such as property division, child custody, and child support.

Differences Between Mediation and Litigation

Mediation is often compared with litigation, which is the traditional process of resolving legal disputes through the court system. In litigation, each party hires an attorney to represent their interests, and a judge makes decisions on their behalf. Litigation can be a lengthy and expensive process, and the outcome is often uncertain.

In contrast, mediation is generally faster, less expensive, and less adversarial than litigation. Mediation also allows the parties to have more control over the outcome, as they are the ones who ultimately decide what is included in the settlement agreement. Mediation can also be less stressful for the parties and children involved, as it is more collaborative.

Who is a Divorce Mediator? What is their Role in Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a fundamental yet often misunderstood aspect of family law. Adistinguished mediation practice, unlike an attorney, doesn’t represent either party but serves as a neutral third-party facilitator to aid couples in reaching amicable settlements.

The mediator’s main aim is to create a constructive dialogue between the parties to resolve issues like child custody, alimony, and property division, all within a legally sound framework.

The process is collaborative, confidential, and often more cost-effective and quicker than traditional litigation. At Cooper Trachtenberg Law Group, LLC, our seasoned mediators are adept at crafting fair and enduring agreements, ensuring a smoother transition during this challenging life event.

Here are some of the most important and significant aspects in which a divorce mediator plays a huge role.

Neutral Third-Party Facilitator

The mediator is a neutral third-party facilitator who helps the couple communicate effectively and reach an agreement that is acceptable to both parties. The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for the couple. Instead, the mediator helps the couple identify the issues that need to be resolved and facilitates a discussion to help them reach an agreement.

Assisting Both Parties in Communication

One of the primary roles of a divorce mediator is to assist both parties in communication. Divorce can be an emotional and stressful process, and communication can become difficult. The mediator helps the couple communicate effectively by encouraging them to listen to each other and express their thoughts and feelings in a constructive manner.

The mediator also helps the couple identify areas of agreement and disagreement and encourages them to work together to find a mutually acceptable solution.

Guiding the Decision-Making Process

Another vital role of a divorce mediator is to guide the decision-making process. The mediator helps the couple identify the issues that need to be resolved and encourages them to explore different options for resolving these issues. The mediator also helps the couple evaluate the pros and cons of each option and encourages them to make informed decisions that are in the best interests of both parties.

Reasons why you should Choose Mediation over Litigation

Divorce can be a challenging and emotional process for all parties involved. However, choosing mediation over litigation can benefit those seeking a divorce. Here are some of the main benefits of choosing mediation:

Cost-Effective

One of the main benefits of choosing mediation over litigation is that it can be cost-effective. Litigation can be expensive, as it involves paying for court fees, attorney fees, and other expenses. In contrast, mediation can be more affordable as it involves fewer legal fees and less time spent in court.

Confidentiality and Privacy

Another benefit of choosing mediation over litigation is that it can be more confidential and private. During mediation, the parties involved work with a neutral third party to come to an agreement. This means that the details of the divorce are kept private, unlike in litigation, where court proceedings are often open to the public.

Control Over the Outcome

Mediation also offers the parties involved more control over the outcome of the divorce. In litigation, a judge makes decisions based on the law, which may only sometimes align with the parties’ wishes. In contrast, mediation allows the parties to work together to reach an agreement that works for everyone involved.

Faster Resolution

Finally, mediation can often lead to a faster resolution than litigation. The court system can be slow in litigation, and cases can drag on for months or even years. In contrast, mediation can be completed in a matter of weeks or months, allowing the parties to move on with their lives more quickly.

Importance of Choosing the Right Mediator

Choosing the right mediator is crucial as it significantly impacts the process and outcome of the mediation. A skilled mediator can:

Facilitate Communication: Encourage open and effective communication between parties, which is essential for reaching a satisfactory agreement.

Neutral Ground: Provide a neutral and safe environment for discussions, ensuring that both parties feel heard and understood.

Conflict Resolution: Help in resolving conflicts amicably, saving time, money, and emotional distress compared to a court trial.

Legal Knowledge: Offer valuable insights based on legal knowledge which can guide the decision-making process.

Confidentiality: Ensure the confidentiality of the mediation process, providing a private setting for sensitive discussions.

The right mediator aids in navigating through complex emotions and legal intricacies, making the divorce process less adversarial and more collaborative.

Legal Protections in Mediation

Illinois law provides protections for parties participating in mediation. Confidentiality is a key aspect of mediation, and the mediator is bound by law to keep all discussions confidential. This allows the parties to speak freely and openly without fear of their statements being used against them in court.

Illinois law provides that any agreement reached in mediation is enforceable in court, giving parties the peace of mind that their agreement will be upheld.

How Illinois Law Influences Divorce Mediation

Illinois law plays a significant role in divorce mediation. The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act provides guidance on issues such as child custody, child support, and property division. Mediators must be knowledgeable about these laws and how they impact the parties’ cases. AtCooper Trachtenberg Law Group, LLC, our skilled divorce mediators are familiar with Illinois law and can help the parties navigate the legal system.

Preparing for Divorce Mediation: Tips and Recommendations

Divorce mediation is a step towards a collaborative resolution. This process, although less adversarial than traditional litigation, requires thorough preparation to ensure fruitful discussions and favorable outcomes. Here are some tips and recommendations to help prepare for divorce mediation:

Setting Clear Goals

Before attending mediation, it is essential to set clear goals and objectives. This will help you stay focused during the mediation process and ensure that your needs and interests are represented. You should identify the most critical issues and what you hope to achieve from the mediation process.

Keeping an Open Mind

It is essential to approach mediation with an open mind and a willingness to compromise. Mediation is a collaborative process, and both parties need to be willing to work together to find a mutually acceptable solution. Being open to new ideas and perspectives can help you reach an agreement that works for both parties.

Collaborating with Your Attorney

It is recommended that you collaborate with your attorney before attending mediation. Your attorney can help you understand your legal rights and obligations and provide valuable legal advice during the mediation process. Your attorney can also help you prepare for mediation by gathering relevant information and documents, such as financial records and custody arrangements.

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Final Thoughts

Divorce mediation, facilitated by a neutral mediator, aids couples in reaching consensual divorce terms. They promote communication and cooperation for a mutually agreeable settlement. In Illinois, lawyers are instrumental in offering legal advice, elucidating the legal ramifications of decisions, and aiding informed decision-making. Mediation, being cost-effective, quicker, and less adversarial than litigation, is preferable. However, it’s not suitable for everyone and doesn’t replace legal representation.

It’s advisable for each party to have an attorney. Lawyers can also mediate, orchestrating fruitful discussions and negotiations. Divorce mediation, when conducted with adept mediators and attorneys, can lead to fair and satisfactory agreements, minimizing the distress and unpredictability of litigation.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the benefits of using a divorce mediator in Illinois?

Divorce mediation can offer several benefits for couples seeking to end their marriage in Illinois. Some of the benefits include:

• Cost savings: Mediation can be less expensive than traditional divorce litigation.
• Control: Couples have more control over the outcome of their divorce when using mediation.
• Confidentiality: Mediation sessions are confidential, which can help couples feel more comfortable discussing sensitive issues.
• Speed: Mediation can be a faster process than traditional divorce litigation.

How can a divorce mediator help with communication during the divorce process?

Divorce mediators are trained to help couples communicate effectively during the divorce process. They can facilitate productive conversations and ensure that each party has the opportunity to express their thoughts and concerns. Mediators can also help couples stay focused on the issues at hand and avoid getting sidetracked by emotional or irrelevant topics.

What factors should be considered when choosing a divorce mediator in Illinois?

When choosing a divorce mediator in Illinois, couples should consider several factors, including:

Experience: Look for a mediator who has experience working with couples in situations similar to yours.

Training: Make sure the mediator has received formal training in mediation techniques.

Style: Consider whether the mediator’s style is a good fit for you and your spouse.

Fees: Make sure you understand the mediator’s fee structure and how much the process is likely to cost.

What are the differences between mediation and traditional divorce litigation in Illinois?

Mediation and traditional divorce litigation are two different approaches to resolving divorce-related issues in Illinois. Some key differences include:

Control: In mediation, couples have more control over the outcome of their divorce. In traditional litigation, a judge makes the final decisions.

Cost: Mediation can be less expensive than traditional litigation.

Speed: Mediation can be a faster process than traditional litigation.

Adversarial vs. Collaborative: Traditional litigation can be an adversarial process, with each party trying to “win” at the expense of the other. Mediation, on the other hand, is a collaborative process designed to help couples find mutually acceptable solutions.

How long does the divorce mediation process typically take in Illinois?

The length of the divorce mediation process in Illinois can vary depending on a few factors, including the complexity of the issues involved and the willingness of the parties to work together. In general, however, the process can take anywhere from a few weeks to several months.

What happens if the parties cannot reach an agreement through divorce mediation in Illinois?

If the parties cannot reach an agreement through divorce mediation in Illinois, they may need to pursue traditional divorce litigation. However, mediation can still be a practical process even if an agreement is not reached. Mediation can help couples identify the issues that are most important to them and clarify their positions, which can make the traditional litigation process more efficient.